Have Read the Kamasutra With My Boyfriend - Adah Sharma

Friday, July 17, 2009

Have Read the Kamasutra With My Boyfriend - Adah Sharma

Is it possible to stir up passion after the flames of romantic love die down? How can one maintain a loving relationship that satisfies and stimulates year after year? Devansh Patel offers one simple solution for stoking the fires of lifelong intimacy: awakening and uniting the Body, Mind, Heart, and Soul.

These four freedoms-the essence of human nature-have the power to transform a love lost partnership into a divine union sparkling with limitless pleasure and unconditional love.

We got hold of actress Adah Sharma to discuss just that because she too believes that sensuality and sexuality lies between the ears and not between the thighs.

So in this second episode of 'Intimacy' we bring you the exclusive talks which lie in between the Debonair, Kamasutra, Porn films, Sex toys and much more. Time to explore the romantic and an erotic world with Adah Sharma.

First time heard about Sex:
When I was six years old and my mother was watching the Bold and the Beautiful, that's when I first heard about the word 'Sex'. I asked her what it was and the answer I got back was - When two individuals love each other it's called Sex. When my mother explained me and my best friend about what the 'periods' were that's when she actually discussed about 'Sex'.

Mood for Romance:
I think when you're even sitting with your mate on a park bench and getting intimate, it can be termed as romantic. For me getting intimate would be getting into the head of that person. For me, sensuality and sexuality lies between the ears and not between the thighs. I think a man who knows how to turn off the lights turns me on.

Seasonal Love:
Spring is an eternal season for me as far as romance is concerned. Having said that, seasons do not have any effect on the way I may feel for my boyfriend because my feelings are not seasonal.

Debonair - the Indian Playboy:
I don't think I have to look at a magazine to get ideas for romance and sex. I've never in my life flipped through pages of Debonair.

But the first time I saw nudity in a magazine was of model and actor Milind Soman where he was seen sitting in an athlete position. The nudity was very well shown and the picture did not look naked. It was a cover of a magazine.

The second instance I can recall is of Milind again with his then girlfriend and model Madhu Sapre in a shoe advert where both posed nude with their private parts covered with a python around their bodies. It was very impressive and bold.

Being sexual and being erotic:
The most erotic thing for me would be to find out what a man thinks when he gets erotic. What goes in his mind at that time? Wish I had the sixth sense for it.

As far as sexuality is concerned, if one is comfortable in their own skin, it's like being sexual. But you can be sexual in many ways. By the vibes you're setting out, the way you walk, the way you dance or even the way you drink a glass of water. That too can be sexual sometimes.

Bollywood romance:
I love the scene in Kabhi Alvida Na Kehna where Shah Rukh Khan and Rani Mukerjee are shown having a cup of coffee.

There is some coffee seen on the side of Shah Rukh's lips and when Rani goes to wipe off, that's when the reality strikes and she realises that he still hasn't had his first sip. I actually got goosebumps after seeing it because it's all about reality and imagination of romance.

Hollywood romance:
Basic Instinct. I think it's a mixture of romance, sensuality and being erotic. It's by far a cult classic. I think Amitabh Bachchan or Hrithik Roshan are fit to act as Michael Douglas in the Hindi remake of Basic Instinct.

Porn Films:
I've never ever seen a porn film in my life but have seen some of 'C' grade Hindi films which can be termed as a part of porn. I cannot name any of those films.

Kamasutra:
I've read the entire Kamasutra and I own one copy of it. Kamasutra is a very technical book and you need a great degree of strength, fitness and flexibility to perform when you make love.

Most people today are satisfied with only visual thinking that this is how they'll have sex and think that they can do all the positions in the book. But trust me; you need to be really agile. My boyfriend and I have read the Kamasutra together.

Positions:
The guy standing on one hand and one leg making love is by far the most impressive sexual positions I've read in the Kamasutra. I don't know that name of that particular position but I can only remember what it was all about.

Posing Nude:
I've always maintained that I like to leave a little bit to the imagination. If I don't I'm giving the audience an easy way out. I like that degree of difficulty that one puts into them. I don't think I'll ever pose nude.

Sex toys:
I saw some bizarre sex toys while I and my friend were doing shopping in Colaba. Initially we didn't know whether the schools compass box look-a-like was actually a sex toy. It was in a shape of a bus and a train. We came to know after we read 'dildo' written on it. That's the first and the only time I saw and picked one in my hand.